Don’t buy into the whole idea that men are non-emotional beings who couldn’t care less about what their women do or say in a relationship. Men can be very sensitive even if they don’t really like to show it much. Your man is still going to want to feel a lot of love and affection coming from you in your relationship. They might not be as expressive as you are when it comes to their feelings and emotions. But it doesn’t mean that they don’t feel.
A lot of it boils down to what you say and how you act in your relationship. There might be a few things that your man is itching to hear from you and you’re not really saying it to him. And if you want to be the best girlfriend in the world, then you might want to read the rest of this article. Here are a few things that your man is actually dying to hear from you.
1. “You are so handsome.”
All men are always going to want to be made to feel like their women are physically attracted to them. You should never be shy about telling your man that you find him handsome. He is always going to love whatever compliments you throw his way regarding his appearance.
2. “You really make me so proud.”
With every opportunity you can get to tell your man that you’re proud of him, you should take it. He is always going to like it whenever you make him feel like you are genuinely proud of being his girlfriend. It’s going to inspire him to actually do more and be more for you.
3. “Have you been working out more?”
If you know that he’s been putting in some extra effort at the gym, then make him feel like you notice it. Even if you don’t really see any major differences, he’s going to want to know that all of his hard work at the gym is paying off.
4. “I want to make love to you right now.”
You probably already know by now that your partner is going to want to have sex with you a lot more than you wanting to have sex with him. But you should humor him every once in a while. You should actually initiate the sexual moments in your relationship every so often. It’s going to make him feel very sexy in your eyes.
5. “You are absolutely amazing!” (in the bedroom)
And once you’re having sexual time in the bedroom, then let him know about how good he is. A lot of men are secretly insecure about how they perform in the bedroom. And you shouldn’t be withholding of whatever admiration you might have for him in a sexual capacity.
6. “It’s okay if you want to talk to me about something.”
You should also be willing to let him know that it’s okay for him to open up to you about various things in life. So many men don’t really feel safe about opening up to anyone. But if you give him the confidence to do so, it’s really going to bring the two of you a lot closer in your relationship.
7. “I totally trust you.”
Trust. There’s no way you would be able to make your relationship last without it. And you should always make it a point to make sure that your man knows that you trust him. Men don’t really respond well to being micromanaged to the point that they are made to feel like babies or idiots.
8. “Thank you so much for everything that you do to me.”
Gratitude. It can really go a long way in any kind of relationship. If you know that your man is doing a lot for your relationship, then you should be thankful for all of that You should let him know that his efforts aren’t unnoticed.
9. “I am here for you every step of the way.”
You need to make your man feel supported all the way. You need to make him feel like you always have his back no matter what. He’s going to need a high level of safety, security, and reliability from you.
10. “What else can I do to make you happy?”
And of course, you should always be doing whatever it takes to make him happy. Ask him how you can be of better service to him as a girlfriend. And he’s going to want to do the same for you as well.
FINAL THOUGHTS
At the end of the day, your man is always going to be want to feel loved and appreciated. And if you step up your communication game, it’s really going to do wonders for the intimacy and bonds in your relationship. Never be withholding of your love and affection. Always make sure that your partner feels just how much he means to you. That will further entice him to love you more and become invested in the future of your relationship.
